Family Planning That's Natural

Many women don’t want the birth control pill, or drugs to get pregnant. They want to know about their menstrual cycle days. At Family Planning That’s Natural, Katie Singer gives women a place for questions and answers about reproductive health without drugs.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Short Cycles, Diet, and Ovulation

 Hi Katie,   I do my best to eat a Weston A. Price nutrient-rich diet with grass-fed  butter, raw milk and cheese, pasture-raised meats, etc.  My cycle has been  a pretty consistent 23-25 days long for the past year, and my two most  recent cycles have been just 20 days long.  Do you have any ideas what  that might mean?  Or anything I can do/eat to try to get back on track  (closer to 28 days)?  I am going to start charting my cycle and see if that tells me anything.  I'm 30 years old and not planning to have  children anytime soon, but I do care about my reproductive health and hope  to have children in the future.   Thanks for all your good work on these topics! 
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In response:


You need to chart and learn whether you are ovulating or not. Often,
short cycles mean that estrogen dominates progesterone in your
reproductive system. You need to decrease things that lead to estrogen
dominance. More on this subject is discussed in this blog.
I can't tell from the diet you describe if you include caffeine, sugar, white flour, or soy, but if you do, be sure to decrease them.  Try adding cod liver oil and the night-lighting technique that I describe in my book.  Best of luck,  Katie Singer  

Saturday, December 12, 2009

A cervix question

Hi Katie!

I need a little advice. I have used the NFP method in the past with
great success. I went back on the pill for about a year to keep my
periods regular during a very stressful time in my life (my final year
of college). I am now back to tracking my cycles (also using a condom
for back-up) and off the pill. My question concerns my cervix during
certain times of the month. Now, I don't monitor my cervix's firmness
every day, as you suggest, but I do notice that during lovemaking my
cervix is very tender during certain times of my cycle. Does this
tenderness mean my cervix is soft or firm? I have not really tried to
detect a pattern, but I thought maybe the tenderness would work as a
good indicator for where I am in my cycle.

Thanks! I hope this is a good question.

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I first need to clarify that the Pill does not regulate menstrual cycles.
Basically, it shuts down many aspects of the cycle. You can see this in
the cervix pictures on my website:

>http://www.gardenoffertility.com/cervix.shtml<

I think you do have a very good question. I'm not aware of cervix
tenderness being a fertility sign. But I think it indicates something.
Is it adjusting to coming off the Pill? Is it giving a message that you
need a pap smear? Honestly, I don't know.

You might decrease or eliminate soy, sugar, white flour, caffeine, and
animal products that are not organic. You might take high quality cod
liver oil and organic butter and try the night lighting technique that I
describe in my book to strengthen your health. See if this shifts your
cervix tenderness. You might consult with a doctor.

Take Care,

Katie Singer

Monday, November 2, 2009

Fertility Awareness in Switzerland

An interesting question about FA in Switzerland:


Hello, Katie,

I just found your website while researching about fertility awareness and I got really interested in reading your book(s), specially the part concerning diet habits, as I've been a vegetarian for 14 years now but I've been thinking about starting eating meat again and I'd like to do it a healthy way. I've also been on the pill for 5 years and now I'm quitting
and starting the fertility awareness method.

I was wodering if you would know of a group or organization in Geneva that discusses/practices the method. I'm having a hard time looking for a teacher or a place where I could discuss this around here - apparently, there is not a Swiss center or organization on the matter, but I thought maybe you could be aware of expats who gather to learn and talk about FA.

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Congratulations on your decision to get off the pill.

I don't know of FA teachers in Switzerland. But try www.fertilityuk.org.

For info about nutrition, I recommend taking a look at www.westonaprice.org. There is a chapter leader in Switzerland, Diana Boskma. Her email address is food.diana@gmail.com. Simply, you might experiment with eliminating soy, sugar, white flour, and caffeine; add cod liver oil and butter. And whenever you eat dairy or meat, make sure they are organic.

Best of luck,

Katie Singer

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Thursday, October 15, 2009

A question about mucus

Please see my response below.

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Hi Katie,

I just had a beautiful baby girl last November (named Katie actually). I have your book, "The Garden of Fertility" that I used to
chart my temperatures before I conceived her.

I just have a question for you. I'm trying to figure out what my body is up to. After Katie was born my cycles returned rather quickly. I nursed her every two hours for several months. Now she nurses about every three hours, nurses once or twice at night and is eating solids regularly each day. She's now 10 1/2 months old. The thing is I haven't had a period in about two months. I love nutrition and try to eat the Weston A. Price way (as much as I can afford or handle). I also sleep in complete darkness each night. Here's the part I can't figure out. I've had a LOT of mucus for weeks. It's there just about every time I use the bathroom. We've taken two pregnancy tests and they were both negative. What do you think could be causing all that
mucus?

Thanks for your help! :)


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While a woman transitions back to regular cycling, it's a very confusing time. The confused signals can go on for a long time. Mucus is a sign that your body is emitting estrogen, and that tells us that your body is trying to ovulate.

You might try sleeping exposed to light for two to three nights, then returning to darkness for two weeks. Continue with darkness for two more weeks, then two to three days of light, then two more weeks of darkness.

You might also try taking high quality cod liver oil with butter everyday and eliminating soy, sugar, and caffeine.

Best of luck,

Katie Singer

Monday, September 7, 2009

A message I'd like to share

Enjoy!

Dear Katie,

I am finally writing to you, nearly a year after first reading your wonderful book (the Garden of Fertility). I had been on the pill for about 6 years before having my son (I was one of those weird people who conceives 2 weeks after being off the pill), but during the pregnancy and the process of planning the birth I discovered a more natural way of doing things and felt very opposed to the idea of going back on the pill. Of course, I was also breastfeeding and planning to do so for a while, so
I knew I couldn't take any type of hormonal medication. My midwife (we planned a home birth) recommended your book to me; I got it when my son was about a month old and never looked back. I have been working with Ilene Richman on occasion over the past 10 months or so now. She is the one who recommended I contact you to tell you how much you have inspired and influenced me.

Not only has fertility awareness changed my daily life (I have been charting regularly since November of last year), it has also taught me so many wonderful things about my body and its functioning. My son just turned one and I am still breastfeeding him frequently; I have yet to return to ovulation, but am finding it so exciting watching my body gearing up for action! I went on the pill when I was about 19 and was basically on it right up until getting pregnant, so I never really had the experience of observing my cycles in a conscious way. Now I look forward to finally being able to do that.

The biggest impact your book had on me, however, was the section on nutrient-dense foods and the Weston Price Foundation. I became a member early this year, and last November we joined our local NYC "raw milk club." When I read the section in your
book on the WAPF way of eating, something about it just really clicked for me. I pounced on the information and became totally committed to changing our diets and way of eating. I had been mainly vegetarian for the 9 months preceding my pregnancy, but I had strong cravings for steak right after the birth that I couldn't deny; when I read more about WAPF my cravings finally made sense. My husband had been a junk-food vegetarian for 16 years (for animal rights reasons), but this year he started eating meat again. We go out of our way to put 95% of our food dollars into the local economy, buying grass-fed meat & poultry, raw milk & dairy, whole wheat sourdough bread, fresh local fruits & veggies, and even local organic dry beans; high-vitamin cod liver oil plays a big role in our lives, and sugar plays NO role at all now! I have seen a dramatic improvement in all of the minor health conditions that I accepted as part of life for years. This is all thanks to YOU! I know many people are resistant to the WAPF gospel -- they think grain-based diets and soy are the way to go -- and many people have a mortal fear of fats, especially those nasty saturated ones, but I wanted you to know that there are readers out here who are desperately hungry for this information, and we greatly appreciate you sharing it. Of course I have now shared this knowledge with everyone I can in my own life, most importantly my two sisters (one of whom has a young child and is pregnant again), and my mom, as well as my husband's family who are originally from Mexico. [Unfortunately they gave up lard for corn oil when they moved here some 35 years ago, but whenever we go to visit them in Chicago I bring lard along and encourage them to use it!]

I have also made it my mission in life to help other expecting and young moms with finding ways to use nutrient-dense foods to achieve total health for themselves and their little ones. I received my certification as a Health Counselor this year, and
have a small practice here in Brooklyn NY helping women and families with a range of issues, all from a natural, nutrient-dense foods perspective. I recently presented on baby's first foods at our local La Leche League meeting, and was overwhelmed with inquiries from mothers anxious for information on feeding their babies. I plan to reach out to local pediatricians and OB/GYNs to let them know how my services can help their patients have healthier, better lives. I take local moms to the farmers' market, I help clients shop for food, I teach to prepare foods properly, and I make it my mission to inspire women to really prioritize their health & well-being. Of course, a discussion of fertility awareness is also a part of my practice. Just as women need some coaching with getting on the right track for FA (and reproductive self-care), they also often need a coach to help with food issues. My practice is truly holistic in that it allows women to address all the reasons why they eat the way they do (emotional, practical, financial, etc.), and helps them learn to observe how foods are affecting their
mood, energy level, and health; I also lead my clients in transitioning gradually to a better way of eating. Learning about nutrient-dense foods from your book has truly impacted my entire life, from my career to my health. [Did I also mention
that our son is absolutely thriving on this diet? He is robust, adorable, and incredibly social and smart.]

Thank you for reading, and THANK YOU for your work! I am more grateful to you than I can say.

A question about HCG injections

My answer follows the question below:

I've read your book (The Garden of Fertility) and have a question about BBT charting. Can I still use BBT to confirm pregnancy if I am currently taking HCG injections to lengthen my luteal phase and improve my body's production of estrogen and progesterone? (My luteal phase was too short to support a pregnancy). My husband and I are trying to conceive (I currently chart both cervical mucous and BBT too).

Am I doing the right thing, or do other rules apply now?

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I've never heard of HCG injections. You might go to your local hospital's medical library, and ask the librarian to help you answer your question. You might also ask the librarian to help you research your risks in taking this drug. Also, your pharmacist should give you the drug company's insert for these injections, and it might address these questions.

A question about breastfeeding

Another message I thought you might enjoy. My response follows the message below.

Dear Katie,

I read your book, The Garden of Fertility. It's great! Very helpful. We are loosely following a Weston Price diet, taking our butter and codliver oil every day, eating no sugar or processed foods, eating plenty of grass fed meat and raw butter and eggs and fermented foods and organic vegetables. We don't have nearly enough organ meats or bone stock. I have 2 children, one is 5 and one is two and a half.

I'm still nursing the youngest a bit. He's small for his age, though his big brother isn't, but my husband and I aren't really that big either, so I expect it's genes rather than diet related, but who really knows? He's very healthy and bright and lovely. His teeth are closer together than his brother's but there are still spaces between them.

We started our version of the WAP diet a few months before getting pregnant with him. Before that we were macrobiotic for many years, although I started eating cheese, yoghurt, lamb and chicken when I became pregnant with my first. I nursed the first right through my second pregnancy and just to go to sleep at night for a couple of months after the second was born. I've never really been able to find anything about how long "traditional" people nursed their babies, and if they nursed when pregnant or trying to get pregnant, or if there was a period of time before getting pregnant where they were no longer nursing in order to build up their reserves again. Do you know? I'm just wondering about getting pregnant again and if I should stop nursing entirely and wait a while before I try. Do you have any opinion about this? I just want to make sure I'm doing the best thing particularly as it's my third. I'm sorry to throw so much information at you. I'm not sure if you can help, but I'd be really interested in anything you had to say. Thanks!

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Thank you for your email. I do not know how long people breastfed in traditional cultures. I can recommend two books: "Our Babies, Ourselves: How Biology and Culture Shape the Way We Parent" by Meredith Small. You might also enjoy "Mother Nature: A History of Mothers, Infants, and Natural Selection" by Sarah Blaffer Herdy.

I will also say that I have questions about how the number of children that a woman has and the space between her children have been affected by the phenomenal changes on our planet in the last 150 years. Quality food is much more difficult to get. We are all experiencing increased population density, and technology can rule the pace of our lives. How do these factors affect creating healthy families and healthy child-spacing? I don't know! I do know that I do have questions.

Thanks for your thoughtfulness on these matters.

Very best,

Katie Singer

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