Greetings! I received the following message, and thought I would post it. Please see my response below, as well:
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Katie,
First, thank you for making FA so accessible. I have learned so much about myself by charting my cycles. I'm really having fun!
I eat a primarily organic whole food diet with very little dairy and no soy, including some meats and eggs, and this month I began to supplement with iron, zinc, calcium, arctic cod liver oil and vitamin D. I have very little current stress and am working through quite a lot of post-traumatic stress and am in a very supportive and mutual relationship. I have been charting my cycle very diligently for the last three months. (What empowering information!) Everything looks to be healthy. My cycles are about 25 days and my luteal phase is a little short- usually around 11 days. I read your article entitled "How do I lengthen my luteal phase?" (November 18, 2007).
I also read in Garden of Fertility about low progesterone levels. It sounds like mine may be just a little low? How long does it take to lengthen my luteal phase and when will i notice a difference?
I have *HORRIBLE* cramps during my period and have for five+ years (I'm 27 years old). they seem to have gotten worse as I have lowered my current stress and cleared my life of negative relationships. I wonder if my body is reactive to the emotional work i am doing with past issues? The pain has increased since I got married (and started having intercourse)-- which is to say, started feeling and engaging with my body in an associated, healthy way. And I have this unbearable premenstrual anxiety, which feels like five days of panic in my lower back. The panic-feeling moves into my abdomen and then I bleed for two days and spot another three or four. I often use a Castor oil pack on my abdomen, drink Valerian and kava kava tea, have a glass of red wine, walk or do some yoga if the pain permits, take a hot bath, cry a lot and cancel everything in favor of rest.
But it is really scary and painful and I wonder if you have any ideas.
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My reply:
I first want to congratulate you for learning so much about your menstrual
cycle, for strengthening it and your self-awareness. I especially salute
your giving yourself rest time when your body calls for that.
I agree that strengthening your progesterone levels might help to ease the
anxiety and pain you experience around menstruation. You might try the
night lighting technique that I describe in The Garden of Fertility and
Honoring Our Cycles. If you are taking cod liver oil, it already contains
Vitamin D. So rather than taking Vitamin D, be sure to consume organic
butter with the cod liver oil. Vitamin D is fat soluble, which means that
the body needs additional fat (butter) in order to assimilate the Vitamin
D.
If you wear high heeled shoes, you might experiment with wearing flats
only. High heeled shoes can throw off your pelvic alignment.
Many women have found great benefit from acupuncture and homeopathy.
In my personal experience, emotional patterns are in our bodies
cellularly, and one of my hardest jobs has been to maintain gentleness
with myself as the patterns appear and reappear and reappear. It sounds
like you are doing that. I trust that you can find techniques to support
your emotional healing. I have found the work of Byron Katie very helpful.
Her website is thework.com. I especially like her audio materials.
Very best to you,
Katie Singer